BULLING NEEDS TO STOP NOW!!!!!

So today I saw a video something that really really  really upset me I mean I was nauseas about it and I just wanted to climb trough my phone and hold that little girl. Ok so first of let me tell you about the video, it was a little girl on her bike I mean…

ALL MY NEW MOMS AND SOON TO BE MOMS!!!!

So this is an exciting time in your life you just had a baby or found out your expecting your first child… Here are rules I live by as a mom. number 1… take in every moment whether it be morning sickness or the first kick you feel, cherish those memories bad and good because…

The real South Africa

Whenever you think about South Africa you think sun shine, the most beautiful wildlife, and of course the “the rainbow nation” with our diversity of race and cultures… Don’t be fooled by the awesome brochures and what you see in geography books. Just one thing before we get started I AM NOT A RACIST!!! I am only…

Should i stay or should i go…

So this is an argument I have had over a million times with a million people. But still I don’t have any answers… Just to be clear I am not going through it myself its just something I don’t really understand so would love to hear your opinion. When you are in a relationship or…

TALENTS AND WHAT NOT…

So have you every just looked at yourself in the mirror and think Ï am really not good at ANYTHING” well this is a daily struggle for me… I have tried many things… Singing I can carry a tune but I am definitely not the next Kelly Clarkson or Tina Turner. Dancing I have rhythm but…

Potty training ahhhhh!

Ok so here is the thing we had it easy with our daughter almost to easy… she didn’t want a pacifier so good one less thing to worry about, I just took away her bottle and gave her a Sippy cup check one thing off. I just one day put her in her toddler bed…

I’M BACK! AND NEED HELP LOTS OF IT!!!

So I know I have been absent for a while to be honest I was trying to get my shit together and that was a bust I am and will probably always suck at being a super house wife and you know what I don’t give a damn I am trying my best and that…

Motherhood..

Motherhood, everyone thinks its all sunshine and roses. and it is most of the time… But not everyone is always honest about what struggles you face sometimes… A positive pregnancy test is the best thing you will ever see (when its a planned pregnancy, and even when its not.) but that is a new struggle…

The secret…

So I have heard a lot about this thing… Its where you only have positive thoughts and attract positive things. Well of course I have my doubts about it but seeing its the new year I thought well lets try.. If you have done it please tell me about it I would love to hear…

My new year…

So it is officially the year 2016… First of all happy new year to each and every one of you and your families. My wish for you is a happy blessed new year full of joy luck and love. I decided to not make the usual new year resolutions like loosing weight or be a…

A letter to my daughter…

As I sit here typing this there is so much stuff going trough my mind that I would want to teach my daughter… so I thought I would write her a letter… this is part one… My dearest daughter you are to small to read this now but I hope one day I would be able…

BEING A MOM…

“What do you do all day” is a question I hear ALOT…  I will tell you what I do I AM A MOM!!! I am the one that makes sure my family is looked after. I am the one lying awake in bed at 1 am thinking about all the things I need to do for m…